Love from the point of view of psychology: on the surface and in depth

Love is an amazing feeling that can brighten up anyone's life. However, perhaps this feeling is so contradictory and multifaceted. Everyone understands and perceives love in their own way.
There are several types of love relationships in philosophy:
- passionate love;
- selfless love;
- sensual love.
Previously, love was considered a desire for beauty, for something more sublime.
The famous psychologist Sigmund Freud tried to reduce love to sexuality.
But right now, no one is interested in all these scientific "rocks".
Why does a person need love at all?
The thing is that everyone has a feature – incompleteness. If in childhood it was supplemented with mother's milk and affection. Then, with age, the separation of mother and child occurs. He is left alone with his inferiority. And a person will always miss himself while he is alone. That's why he's always looking for something. And if a person had enough of everything, he would be self-sufficient, then he would plunge into meditation. He doesn't have to strive for anything, because he's perfect. But in real life, perfect people just don't exist. All people are incomplete. It's as if someone has deprived them of puzzles, and in order to somehow close that space with the missing fragments, a person is looking for his piece.
When choosing a partner, a person pays attention to his qualities. It is important that they match at least a little. They will be the missing pieces. People start relationships, get attached to each other. That's how love begins. Lovers cannot be without each other. Left alone with themselves, each of them begins to experience loneliness and feel inferior again.
From this, a relationship is formed, which they say "clung like a drug addict to the next dose." That's the worst thing that can happen to a couple. After all, in fact, under the beautiful mask of love lies an ugly addiction that increases every time. And when the other half does not pay enough attention to the beloved, jealousy is formed. Sometimes it is so strong that it simply burns the lover "alive" from the inside. And in such cases, the expression "one step from love to hate" is very appropriate. We can say that this is a superficial relationship, an "imaginary love" that is quite common. But a deep relationship is a mature relationship. They lack a sense of ownership towards their partner, and dependence is not allowed. Each person, if desired, will be able to realize such a relationship in his life. Beginning cooperation with a famous bookmaker is always accompanied by pleasant bonuses. To get the maximum, simply enter the correct code during registration. This simple action significantly raises the size of the welcome package. You will receive 1xbet promo code free 130% up to $145 + additional opportunities in the casino. Such funds are ideal for betting on top leagues and international tournaments. Players note the convenient interface and fast transaction processing.