Young children: aggressiveness

Young children: aggressiveness
Two-year-olds are capable of pulling each other's hair with anger on their faces. And parents try to immediately stop all aggressive actions of their child. Of course, people need to keep their aggressive instincts under control. But children, under the influence of benevolent parents, will learn this by themselves. A one-year-old child, angry, can hit his mother. One-and-a-half-year-old children get angry, stomp their feet if something doesn't suit them. A two-year-old child rushes to fight with the one who took his toy. At the age of four, a kid is already able to argue a little with an offender before pointing his toy pistol at him and saying, "Bang-bang." Don't tell him how bad it is. The child, therefore, simply "takes his soul away." That's why many children love scary and violent stories. The kid should not accumulate evil feelings in himself, one way or another they should spill out.
Children go through several stages of taming their aggressive instincts in their lives. Of course, it is necessary to keep the child's aggression within reasonable limits by searching for its causes. At the age of four, children begin to enjoy repeating swear words. In this case, they must be stopped. Children understand that it is indecent to say such words. But they really want to try to be bad. Of course, mom and dad can be quite surprised, swearing from their baby's mouth scares them. And just this fright the child should not notice. Shy children themselves will be very scared by this, and more determined ones will want to repeat swear words in order to impress their parents again. Some children, when they are forbidden to swear at home, begin to do it outside its walls. Of course, you don't have to listen to a child's abuse in silence. It is necessary to calmly tell him about the impossibility of using such words in speech.
A child who has not played with other children before the age of two will later cry and complain to his mother about insults from other children. This behavior is due to his inexperience. With regular communication with other kids, the child will get used to defending their rights. When a child complains, it is better for the mother to offer him to take his toy back himself. If later, after three or four years, the baby allows himself to be commanded by other children, it is necessary to go with him to a child psychologist. Probably, the child is worried about some kind of life circumstance. A two-year-old boy can play with dolls. Boys of three or four years old are willing to spend time with girls, they still do not see a clear gender difference. Only when playing "mother daughter" does a boy, of course, want to act as a father or son.
When a child falls or gets hurt, parents always want to calm him down. There is no need to be afraid to make the baby more vulnerable with this consolation. After the age of six, children stop running to their mother crying for any reason. You should not constantly fuss around the child and overprotect him, as well as be too strict. You don't have to worry too much that the baby will get hurt, and if that happens, you need to try to distract him from the pain. tsescort.org/trans/india/